​My personalized childcare coaching sessions are for parents who want to find childcare on their own with expert guidance. I offer in person coaching sessions in the NYC metro area and video sessions across the USA.

Identifying your long-term childcare needs, parenting philosophies and overall wishlist for your household, child's care and education.

Help you evaluate the benefits and challenges of daycares, nannies, nanny sharing and au pairs and how they apply to your family- cost, market standards, types of nanny options available, local trends and advice for making your decision.

Step-by-step guidance and tools on the best practices to find, hire and maintain a healthy, lasting employment relationship with quality nanny or nanny share.

How Does Childcare Coaching Work?

With my coaching, you will receive the information, training and support you need to confidently find, hire and maintain a great daycare, nanny or nanny-share for your child without the additional costs of a placement agency.
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Tell us about your childcare needs through our family assessment 

I understand that each family has different needs, wants, budget, personality, stressors, and child raising philosophies. Because of this, I emphasis the importance of getting to know your unique family to guide you on the childcare path that is best suited for you. 

After booking your coaching session, I will send you our detailed Choice Parenting Family Assessment to help you think through and communicate your personality, parenting style, childcare expectations, career requirements, schedule and more.  

Meet for our childcare coaching session

Coaching sessions are offered in person within a 60 minutes commute of Manhattan (or via video/phone consultation for clients out of area or when time is prohibitive).  The in person coaching sessions last approximately 2-2.5 hours in your home, office or convenient cafe.

During your childcare coaching session, Holly Flanders will provide do-it-yourself information and tips to teach you how to find quality childcare on your own without the additional costs of nanny placement services.   Together, we will discuss your needs, questions, and advise you on the best practices for finding, hiring, training and maintaining a healthy relationship with the right caregiver. 

Based on your needs, we will discuss topics such as: 

• Benefits, challenges and feasibility of the different childcare options (Daycares, nannies-live in or out, nanny-sharing, au pairs, SAH parenting)
• How to effectively interview daycares, nannies, nanny-share families and references
• Considerations, costs and how to best organize a nanny share (written expectation/contract and topics to discuss before starting a nanny share)
• Budgeting for childcare: what are the costs of daycare vs. nanny (payroll, taxes, insurances, benefits, extra expenses, backup care)
• How to perform background, reference and quality control checks 
• Importance and purpose of the "nanny contract" (employment agreement) as well as what topics and clauses should be included in your written document
• How to clearly communicate employment and child raising expectations
• Working interviews, training and trial periods for your nanny/share
• Organizing and recording emergency information, alternative pick up contacts, hours and payment tracking, development of the child(ren), daily activities and household responsibilities
• Reviews, raises, and bonuses ​

After your childcare coaching session

After our coaching session, you will receive:

• All of the digital guides and templates from our Choice Parenting Store
• Service recommendations to simplify your childcare search and on-going employment relationship: Payroll services, background check professionals, CPR instructors, nanny cameras, GPS trackers and more. 
• An email outlining our suggestions and recommendations for your next steps based on our conversation
• Remote support via phone or email to answer any quesitons you have as you start your search to find a quality caregiver to match your family

Ready to get started with Choice Parenting? 

Childcare Coaching Session (In Person)

$250.00

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An in person childcare coaching session in your home, office, or local coffee shop within a 60 minute commute of Manhattan. During your 2- 2.5 hour session, we will support and guide you to help you choose which type of childcare is right for your unique family. We will teach you best practices to find, hire, and maintain a quality daycare, nanny, or nanny share on your own without to added cost of an agency.

Childcare Coaching Session (Video or Phone)

$150.00

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A video (Skype/Facetime) or phone childcare coaching session. For those who want to find childcare on their own with expert help, our personalized DIY 1 hour remote coaching sessions assist you in:

• Identifying your long-term childcare needs, parenting philosophies and overall wishlist for your child's care and education.
• Help you evaluate the benefits and challenges of daycares, nannies, nanny sharing and au pairs and how they apply to your family- cost, market standards, local trends and advice for making your decision.
• Information, step by step guidance and tools on the best practices to find, hire and maintain a healthy, lasting relationship with quality nanny or nanny share WITHOUT our nanny placement services.​

Additional questions?
Is your maternity/paternity leave almost over? Feeling overwhelmed and short on time? Or just have a few questions and are not sure you need the full childcare coaching session?